Michele,
With our instant culture for the most part we humans do react too quickly. A good problem solver is that individual that can pause, reflect, consider and then propose a solution. My father used to call the pause part "doing a walk about". The "walk about" gave him a chance to think everything through and then come up with a solution. As we were living on a remote ranch where it was up to us to come up with a solution or deal with dire consequences we had to be very good at problem solving or we were not… >>>