Kelly,
(1) We generally don't do IEPs (Individualized Education Plans) at the postsecondary level. The IEP is seen as a way of maximizing success (not potential, but success) in the K-12 system. That's not our goal in higher ed. Our goal is to provide equal access to the CHANCE to be successful. Faculty generally do get a "letter of accommodation" from someone who has reviewed the files and determined the necessary accommodations. Those are the accommodations necessary to assure that access. It is NEVER inappropriate for faculty to meet with students and say "what can I do to help?" But… >>>