Instructor Style
How do you find a happy medium between professionalism and forming a bond with your students.
Kat,
Good question that many instructors deal with. The line is to provide professional support and career growth. When a student brings a personal problem to you that is beyond the scope of your professional responsibilities then you need to refer them to the Student Assistance Office for help. This way you have been of help to them and they are able to get the help they need and you have not exceeded your boundaries of providing counseling that you are not qualified to provide.
Gary
Gary Meers, Ed.D.
I think this one is a hard one. I believe by understanding the students you can build that teacher student relationship, but where is the line? When the student comes to you with a problem in their lives what do you say/ do?
Linda,
I agree. This connection with students results in two way respect and the development of rapport as well. As a result the stage is set for a positive learning experience.
Gary
Dr. Gary Meers
I believe that an Instructor should have some kind of bond with their student. I feel that we must show respect, understanding, and knowledge.I feel these quality shows bonding with the student.
I think you have to relate to them. You also have to be be somewhat hard, but also, fair. They have to enjoy the learning process, but not so much that it is percieved as playtime. Keep them focused, on task and engaged. Show them that you care abou their success. That will soildify that bond.
Jennifer,
The key is to develop rapport with them. That is they are comfortable with you and know you are there to help them be successful if they will put forth the effort. You maintain a distance from them in relation to outside activities and what topics you talk with them about. They will quickly see that you do not intend to be their buddy but that you are interested in them as individuals.
Gary
Dr. Gary Meers
