As an instructor of Pharmacy Technology, I try to keep in mind that my current students may someday become either my co-worker or even my supervisor. I agree with drawing the line in the classroom by not becoming "pals" but after the student graduates, I see nothing wrong with networking with these now professionals in my field.
Everyone,
I guess I would like to know how we are defining “closer†or “deeper†friendships are. Are we talking about “pals†who do “fun†things together, or are we keeping it merely on a colleague/professional/working level?
I have a student who would like me to go to her baby shower; she graduates in 7 days. Is this acceptable? I have had plenty of students who want to go have a drink with me after graduation. Is this acceptable? From a colleague standpoint, colleagues go to each others’ functions and/or have an occasional drink together. If the person has graduated, are these things okay?
Lee,
This is a good point for instructors to remember. I have developed professional relationships with many of my former students that have resulted in collaborative projects and ongoing exchange of expertise. I treasure these relationships and the help I was and am able to provide the students.
Gary
Dr. Gary Meers
Hi Lee,
I must say that I agree with you regarding developing deeper friendships with former students. One of my favorite professors as an undergrad later became my mentor, and is now one of my closest friends and colleagues. As a Fulbright scholar, her guidance and professional recommendations have been priceless. I hope to fulfill a similar role in the lives of my students in the future.
I agree that being too chummy can be dangerous and blurs the professionalism line. I believe that even if they are a graduate you should not be developing a close friendship with them. Even if you start a work project together they are still not a friend but a colleague.
