Dyana,
I prefer to discuss grade and performance status in person with each student, and frequently. I'm saying that is an easy chore given thebtimebit requires, but I believe my connection, advice, suggestions, support and encouragement helps build trust and in turn, respect. Online grade information that offers anytime viewing is good too. But that static information can be made more helpful when accompanied with something personal from their instructor (at least periodically).
Barry Westling