Doris,
I couldn't agree more. I am the mother of a daughter who is a wheelchair user with a significant disability. I made it a point, as she was growing up, to find a way to give her a chance to participate in things WHEN SHE CHOSE TO, but didn't push her to do things that she wasn't interested in, just so she could say she had. She seems to have turned out pretty well! GRIN
Dr. Jane Jarrow