Nicolette,
WHOA! WAIT! BACK UP!!! This sounds a lot like "blaming the victim", Nicole. The fact that a person has a disability does not mean that they may not also not be your favorite person or favorite type of person. But when you speak of "disorder ends and personality flaws begin" it sounds as though you are suggesting that ADHD creates personality flaws that you would excuse if you MUST, but that you are not tolerant of if it isn't REALLY a disability. ADHD behavior does not mimic "personality flaws."
Dr. Jane Jarrow
