Labels are important, as they are the terms we use to put things into categories in order to help us understand them. Often, though, instead of helping us understand, labels cause us to make a mental checkmark in an imaginary box - and then stop thinking!
 
How many kids in the world have been called "slow learners" or even "learning disabled" when their only problem was teachers who lacked patience, or parents who didn't recognize genius when they saw it? How many people hear the words, "You have a fatal illness," and simply resign themselves to die?
 
How many Protestants refuse to talk to Catholics? How many so-called "conservatives" see others as either comfortably like themselves or as "liberals" and utterly foreign.  This business of "red" states and "blue" states from U.S. media is a prime example of how labels tend to do nothing more than confuse and confound. Any talk radio station provides excellent examples of people who rely on labels rather than take the time to think for themselves.
 
What labels have you accepted for yourself? Where did they come from? Is there another way of looking at negative labels to turn them into positive attributes? If you think of yourself as lazy, what would happen if you changed that to "relaxed?" How about interpreting stubbornness as persistence, weirdness as charming eccentricity, and fear as concern?
 
You see, it is important to avoid labels that chip away at your self-esteem and to be highly skeptical of terms that pigeonhole others. Instead, become sensitive to the words you use to describe yourself and your relationships. If you make them as positive as possible, you will find that your experiences tend to reflect the upbeat tone of the language.