Physical Changes
When I stared teaching I was very heavyset. Two years ago I lost over 100lbs. Shortly after my weightloss I started experiencing behavior problems with students that I hadn't in 5 previous years of teaching. One of my coworkers suggested it was my new appearance. I look younger, I'm able to dress more stylish (still professionally), and I have a lot more energy. I think that students were seeing me more as a peer rather than an instructor. As a result, I have become more strict on policies and making sure they are written so students don't get the idea that I'm a peer that will give in when they need it.
Hi Amanda,
Nicely stated! Students have to know that they are boundaries, and you may be nice to them and can relate toem because of being close in age, but you are the instructor.
Patricai
I am close in age with many of my students...most of the time they still respect me...of course you will have those that think "we're friends" because we are the same age and try to take advantage of that...but I nip it in the bud! They have to realize yes, we have a rapport and we are cool (in a sense) but this is still school and a certain respect is expected.
Hi Lisa,
Wow, you certainly hold your age well! It is amazing to see how differently students will behave based on the age they think you are or based on the age you act.
Patricia
Interesting, my students think I am 15 years younger than I am, when I tell them my age, I notice a change in some of their behavior...
Hi Rachel,
Congrats on the weight loss! Establish policies and enforce them strictly. Let your students know that you care about them, but you will not allow them to control you nor the class.
Patricia
