As a new instructors, we are subject to every "why me" story every student has to invent. How, as a new instructor, do I know when I am being feed rotten information verses someone who really geniunely does need extra help. How does condition themselves not to become complacent and jagged?
Also, when there is a student that does really required extra help, when do you know that it's time to let go and let them develop without you?