I think the old cliche phrase "If you want to get the respect you have to give it" sums up the secret to instructor success. Leading by example and setting a healthy standard for your students should be the first and foremost priority. Trying not to be a hypocrite is not an easy task and it's difficult not to make mistakes and be perfect all the time. But, with the proper planning and organization, it is possible to be consistent in your delivery and become a leader as well as an educator. My students love it when am confident, happy, and in control. They feed off of my energy and they appreciate the fact that I am trying to become a part of their team to achieve the overall task at hand. I find that a simple please and thank you go alot further than treating them like they are numbers. They want to know that you genuinely care about their success.